Stop saying you want feedback.
All you do is argue with it.
Here's the hard truth:
Most feedback you receive is incomplete.
Most feedback you reject is valuable.
The problem isn't the feedback.
It's your ego defending its territory.
Here's what winners do differently:
- Accept the perspective
→ Even when it stings
→ Especially when you disagree - Dig for the lesson
→ What threatens you most about this feedback?
→ What if they’re 10% right?
→ Growth hides where your ego flinches - Resist the urge to defend
→ Your explanations kill learning
→ Nobody cares about your intentions
→ Defensiveness proves their point - Keep it in context
→ One view isn’t the full picture
→ But patterns don’t lie
→ Ignore patterns, ignore growth
Your ego protects comfort.
Your growth protects your future.
Choose wisely.